November 16, 2016

Sugar and Spice and All Things Nice

Two things happened last weekend: Sint Maarten and (the arrival of) Sinta Klaas.

Both are typically Dutch and both are responsible for dialing up the year-end festive mood. My in-laws swear by them along with several millions other Dutch in this country; as do Silver Bullet who grew up celebrating the tradition but had completely lost touch with it in the last 11 years.

For the kids, those would be the sweetest days ever. Like literally drowning in sweets as experienced by Spud and Squirt – part of their so-called initiation rites.

These festivities get pretty big, mind you. The children learn new songs in school and singing them on repeat for weeks on end, the TV will broadcast special shows and the towns and villages will be littered with sugar and spice and all things nice.

It would be no surprise that the main topics dominating most conversations at around this time of the year would revolve around Sint Maarten and Sinta Klas. Not only we got to talk about it, we got to experience it like the Dutch would. Let me explain:

Sint Maarten (or Saint Martin’s)
It’s the Dutch ”Halloween” celebrated on the evening of 11th November – all the treats without the tricks. Instead, the kids and kids only (accompanied by adults if they are younger) would go door-to-door with hand-crafted lanterns in their hands and sing the songs they school had taught them in return for some candies.

There are no scary or funny dress-ups. All they had to do was sing, sing and sing. Then it would rain candies!


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Grubs and Critters!

 

Why 11th November? It’s the day Saint Martin, a Roman soldier who was baptized as an adult and later became a monk died. He was a friend of the children and the poor. The best well-told legend was that he had cut his cloak in half to share with a beggar during a snow storm, thus saving the beggar’s life.

It is celebrated by many countries around the world, each country with different ways of celebrating. The Halloween and Sint Maarten are therefore technically not related.

This day also happened to be Silver Bullet’s birthday and he had spent many good years singing and receiving extra candies on Sint Maarten! This time, he made his round first with his mom along with the kids in their neighbourhood and then continued on with only the kids within our own neighbourhood.

The looting was pretty darn good. I reckon, this stash would last a year. Of course the Parents’ Tax apply.

[More on Sint-Maarten Wikipedia]

Sinterklaas
The primary source of the popular Christmas icon of Santa Claus, Sinterklaas also known as De Sint is essentially a mythical figure from the origins of Saint Nicholas. He is a well-known figure mainly in territories that were part of the Dutch empire.

While celebration and giving of gifts is only done on 5th December, the celebrations that lead up to it starts earlier.

Last weekend, SintaKlaas and his crew hit town. Our little town; all dressed up with loud music and accompanied by his crew, Zwarter Piet(s) – the ones usually with the goodies!

Just like Santa Clause, Sinterklaas and Zwarte Piet(s) will be carrying sacks loaded with candies and presents to nice children. Pepernoten were given out and stuffed into the hoods of the kids’ jackets

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Credit: Google Image
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Grubs and Critters!

Back home after all the fun fare, as tradition, the kids will put out their shoes (yes, shoes! Not stockings or socks) for Zwarte Piet. But first, these kids have to sing as loud as they can and if they sing nice and they have been good, Zwarte Piet will come down from the chimney and leave them little presents. Kids love them!

It’s a Dutch fable and that pretty much explains why Zwarte Piet is all black – he comes down the chimney and got all soot up.

Unfortunately, in the recent years, Zwarte Piet being black has caused quite a stir. Traditions surrounding Sintaklaas and Zwarte Piet have been quite controversial and considered by some to be racist. To the extend that the innocent festival invoke protest and violence.

But for most, the holiday event remains popular in the Netherlands with 92% of the Dutch surveyed surveyed in 2013 did not perceive Zwarte Piet as racist or associate him with slavery.

For the kids, they don’t give a crap about colours; all they care about would be candies and presents. In all sorts of colours!

[More on Sintaklaas Wikipedia]

Now I don’t know how your weekend was if you did not celebrate those. And as you can see, ours got a tad busy with lots of leftovers loot to satisfy that sweet tooth.

After last week though, I’m in a need for a less hectic affair. Perhaps a slightly quieter weekend to recover while gearing up for the next big event on 5th December. Then again on Christmas. And then New Year.

Plenty of parties going on and one can’t help but gotta love this time of the year.

Say, what will you be doing this weekend?

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November 14, 2016

A New Chapter Dutch Style

The opportunity for relocation to work in the Netherlands for the same organisation never did materialise. This was despite several conversations and engagements I’ve had prior, off and on for more than 15 months since Mar/April last year.

With several (unsolicited) referrals which I got from superiors and fellow colleagues from various continents,  I managed to preserve my faith for a chance of a transfer. As time ticked on, I kept my head up for as long as I could up till when I resumed my duties to support our Thai office on remote after our move to Holland. 

From then on, the response was lukewarm at best, if not non-existence. 

Slowly but surely, the radio silence fueled my insecurities – my confidence brutally killed, my capabilities questioned and my already fragile ego crushed. I felt  very unappreciated; it was like I was just being shoved aside. I then decided that it would be best to start looking for opportunities outside of my organisation.

It was timely, especially since my tolerance of being cooped up at home was running thin. My allegiance had wavered and I turned my attention to Linked-In applying for positions at various levels that would require my skills regardless of my industry of expertise. 

With a mindset of seriously considering to start my career in a new country from scratch, I was ready to roll-up my sleeves and start from the bottom if need be. I did not want to believe that I’m less relevant at my old(er) age with the virtue of my nationality and ethnicity.

Along with that, I put in a concerted effort to cold-calling competitive organisations to pitch my skills and experience.

Very unfortunately, all…and I mean ALL applications via Linked-In were met with an outright rejection or non-response. My self-doubt grew.

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To my delight, the cold-calling worked.I finally got calls for interviews after about 2 months of customising cover letters after cover letters ! Pure cold-calling with no help from any business associates I knew. 3 companies, 5 phone calls, 4 interviews and 1 assignment later, I was offered a position with a multi-national organisation with the competition. 

It could have been the unexpected sighting of the shooting star and/or it could be pure luck, coincidence or the case of being at the right place and the right time; but I have to tell you this: The offer came several days following my 3-Month Mark post.

I remember throwing my intent out to the universe when I wrote that bit, wanting so bad to believe in the astrological phenomenon behind the Sturgeon Moon:  That the moon would bring about change with the beginning of eclipse season. A time in which some areas in our lives would be going through a change of endings and/or new beginnings.

The timing could not have been better. In fact, I thought it was almost creepy! 

But whatever that was, I feel very blessed: Thankful for the opportunity, grateful for the respite and humbled by spirited inner faith for this chance to continue my career in the industry I have personally evolved with for almost 2 decades. Most of all, so very relieved to be able to earn an income and be financially independent. 

My new adventure started last week after serving a 2 months notice with a small break in between. A week on, what still stuck with me was the Dutch hospitality meted out on my very 1st day of work:

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A bunch of Dutch workplace hospitality

 

It’s not a normal practice in a Dutch workplace as I discovered, but I was told that it was indeed a very positive sign of a good organisation. The flowers are quite dead by now and while it is still too early to speculate anything at all, there is a vibe going on. En alles goed.** 

Let there always be light, for things have a very funny way of working out in the strangest possible ways. 

** Translation: And all is good!

 

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November 13, 2016

Sunday Humour: Today in Politics

Category: Entertainment

In view of a very sad and shocking reality TV unfolding on what it takes to be the world’s super-power, here’s the real definition of terms regularly used in politics:

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Source: Google Image

The real question really is, how many cows do you have and how many of those are the sacred ones? Never mind that the question does not make sense. It’s not important.

The week has been eventful to the world and humanity at large. Here’s to another week of scarilarious* pondering. 

*a word I saw a friend posted on FB

 

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