November 12, 2010

Baby Carriers in review

Category: Baby Essentials

Carrying a baby strapped to you like a starfish is the best there is when navigating the streets of Bangkok. I could hardly call myself an expert on this, but I guess having been wearing Spud for a while now does count for a bit in terms of the experience with the different types of baby-carriers.

Interestingly, those who wear their babies here are in the minority. This is quite evident from the (un)availability in the different types of baby carriers sold commercially in this city. It is pretty hard to find suitable baby-carriers from the big departmental stores here, and if you do find one, chances are they are usually sold in some sort of specialty stores.

[Baby Björn]

It is of no surprise that the first carrier we owned is Baby Björn. We decided to buy it in Singapore months before Spud was born simply because the brand is widely available. In fact, the brand came highly recommended as the best-selling carrier by the salesperson we interacted with (DUH! right, come to think of it.) I honestly don’t have any major issues with Baby Björn for when I first started using it, I thought it felt very comfortable. We had used Baby Björn only in the first 2 or 3 weeks of Spud’s life intermittently. The only reason I stopped using it was mainly because I started to experiment with other types of carrier. It was later that I found out from the internet and subsequently from the Baby Wearing Club that while Baby Björn was responsible for making baby wearing mainstream, there were a lot of controversies behind it. Apparently, there have been some suggestions that the position of which the carrier seats the baby can be detrimental to the development of the hips and spine. The way it was designed requires the the baby to be suspended by its crotch with legs dangling about; forcing all of baby’s weight to hang from his/her pelvis which puts undue stress and pressure on that little pelvis and spine.

I am not sure how true this is, so to each his/her own. However, I do realise that the dangling legs position is not very natural for a small baby and I did notice that Spud tend to slump whenever she was being carried in the Baby Björn .That Baby Björn is not cheap, mind you! Since we hardly use it, it is now collecting dust in the closet.

[The Sling]
I got on to The Sling out of curiosity since it was a gift from my brother and his wife. It was cumbersome to use initially and it took a bit of getting used to. I did notice that with The Sling, Spud always calm down almost immediately whenever I put her in it.

For me, one other advantage of using The Sling is really the ability to breastfeed in public discreetly. The only drawback however, is the fact that all the weight is carried by one shoulder and it does put a strain on my already bad back…which is not good!

One thing I learnt from wearing The Sling is how important the texture of the material is. As mine is one that is soft and silky, while is nice and cool to the touch, it tends to slide quite a bit from the ring. As a result, I have to keep adjusting when I have it on me as Spud will keep sliding down because of her weight.

The best material for the sling would be a sturdy cotton material that will not slide from the ring that easily.

[Mei-Tai]
This is my favourite baby carrier so far simply because it feels really snug and comfortable. It did take Spud a little bit of adjustment but once she got used to it, she loves being carried in it and will easily fall asleep while in it.
Not only does it give me a better shoulder and back support as compared to The Sling, I also feel more secure carrying Spud in a Mei-Tai. So secure that I think I have mastered the art of discreetly breastfeeding hands-free while I’m in a taxi or walking around in a mall and just about anywhere. And so far, unless they peer into my kangaroo pouch, no one has caught on when a froggy-leg positioned Spud is being breastfed whilst she is tucked snug in my Mei-Tai!

I am currently intending to look for a different variation of Mei-Tai, just because they can be so cool looking!

*Image from onelovebabycarriers.com

[The Wrap]
The Wrap is essentially a long piece of cloth that needs crazy tying! Certainly needs a lot of getting used to and currently, it is a little bit too daunting for me to use.

It definitely is the most versatile from what I have seen so far and I reckon, I will need loads of practice to master the use of The Wrap. I am slowly warming up to it though and it is something I would like to embark on. I am still researching a little bit more on this before I commit to a purchase.
While baby wearing can be such a cool thing for new age moms, I swear baby wearing is an art in itself. There are so many cool looking carriers out there and they pique my curiosity to no end. I always wonder how the different types of carriers carry.
Call me silly, but I think baby wearing is just so awesome!
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November 9, 2010

What a morning!

Category: Random

Boring days? Nah…! In fact, boring days are rather hard to come by these days. If anything, my days have gotten to be rather colourful. Especially today. Stressful, but “colourful”.

Happening #1:
Our day started with an early morning visit to the hospital  for Spud’s blood test for the diarrhoea she has had since last week. While at it, we lugged along her diapers full of poop as evidence for the doctor’s examination. It was a visit neither Silver Bullet nor me enjoyed very much especially after seeing how the nurses tried to draw blood from her while trying to look for a vein . It was quite heartbreaking for me to see Spud in agony as they poked her again and again in one arm for quite a while when they tried to draw blood. And after a lot of tries which seemed like eternity, they had to search again  from Spud’s other arm and started the poking all over again while she screamed her lungs out. Unfortunately, there was nothing we could do but try to hold her still as she screamed her lungs out in agony. I cannot imagine that it is a pleasant job for these nurses.  As an adult, I hate that vein routine…what more for a small child! I squirmed and cringed and even let out a tear or two while they manhandled Spud. It certainly was not a pleasant morning for us!

Happening #2:
When we were almost done at the hospital, we gave our new nanny a call to let her know the time she could start work. As fate has it, she had actually texted us earlier, informing us of her medical emergency with her niece and therefore could not turn up for work. I have to admit that I did think that she might have decided to suddenly turn her back on us. I started to wonder if we should continue our search for a new one as I was afraid she would not show up the next day as I have to be at work! That thought loomed in my head the whole day, but was assured by Silver Bullet’s confidence of her.

We.shall.see.

Happening #3:
An American guy had committed suicide in my office building by jumping off  the 3rd floor just when I got to the main building. Had Silver Bullet dropped me off at the usual entrance, I certainly would have had faced death right on my track. What made my hair stood on ends was that it happened within mere minutes just when I entered from another side entrance. I am just glad I did not see the scene for I do not know how I would react or how the sight could have affected me for the rest of my day.

[Somebody had blogged about it, taking pictures of the scene and all. However,I don’t feel right sensationalising someone else’s plight by providing the link here. May he rest in peace.]

I don’t think I could take anymore excitement for the rest of the day. Any more to this would give me massive heart palpitations.

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November 8, 2010

Chalking up experiences

Category: Baby Milestones

My first day back at work was a little overwhelming as I get back into the grind by catching up with all the work I have missed, undertake new ones as well as trying to manage my stress level with The Nanny issue looming over my head after an extremely stressful weekend. I can only remember the day as being in a big huge frenzy.

We can’t seem to catch a break with the last few days being particularly hectic:

  • Search for a new nanny began last Friday night
  • Spent literally 2 1/2 days back-to-back interviews of a potential babysitter/domestic help since Saturday
  • Spud had an inflammation of her intestines and been having diarrhoea for a week. Diagnosed with food allergy on Sunday.Have to go for blood test on Tuesday.
  • Me starting work on Monday. Loads of projects to catch up on.
  • Having to fire our current Nanny on Monday evening.
  • Missed out on hiring a really good candidate by mere minutes as when she picked up our call, she has just finished and interview of which she was hired on the spot. (major, major boo!)
  • Cancelling on one candidate whom we thought we were going to hire. (Super stress!)
  • Hiring a new babysitter/domestic help by end of Monday night.

What a way to start a work week after a 3 month maternity leave! Life should be so interesting.

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