July 27, 2012

Life with Reflux

Category: Being Parents

It sometimes is hard to make sense of things when your baby has the reflux. I don’t even know where to begin.

How are we coping with Squirt’s reflux situation so far? We are hanging in there; some days are good, some days not so good. And as a mother, it is extremely frustrating to watch my baby scream in pain after a feed.

More than 4 weeks on since the diagnosis, and we now have been prescribed another medication called Omeprazole after Air-X and Antacil. It apparently is the big gun of all reflux meds there is. It is a common medication prescribed for infants with severe reflux condition to treat symptoms of gastroesophageal reflux disease and other conditions caused by excess stomach acid.  It also is used to promote healing of any damage to the esophagus caused by stomach acid.

When our Pediatrician recommended Omeprazole to us, we were told that it would take at least 7-10 days before the medication takes effect. Squirt has now been on the new medication for about 2 weeks, and as much as we hate to medicate – especially an infant, I have to say that there has been some improvement to his behaviour after a feed. For a start, he does not retch, gag, cough and scream all day like he did before.

He still gets the reflux, though and they come in bouts. Sometimes, I could hear the swishing and swashing of the acid from his stomach to his throat. He still cries a lot when that happens or when he cannot get his burps out. He still spits up and then sometimes, swallows it all back in.

Our nights are still broken, and he does wake-up more than three times a night when he has the reflux (usually at 4 am!). Just the other night, he woke up every hour again and spent most of his time in his cot coughing. In that sense, we are still in a bit of a roller-coaster ride.  However Squirt, does not appear to be in constant pain like he did before Omeprazole. Even at night, it usually takes us a much shorter time to settle him.  It still is not all a bed of roses, but there are now windows of moments where we would see a happy and a very, very smiley baby who seems so keen to interact!

That being said and all things considered, in this case, I have no qualms about medicating my baby if it means that my child becomes a much happier baby.

We are taking some measures in trying to make him as comfortable as we can. Apart from the Yoga Ball and making sure that we keep him upright for at least 15 minutes after a feed (They recommend 30 minutes, but this has become an impossible feat at night!), we also make sure that he does not lie flat on his back when sleeping or when being changed by elevating his cot with a wedge.

I have yet to embark on the elimination diet (bleahhh! – which probably make me an irresponsible parent since I feed him breast milk), butI did cave in on giving him a soother (i.e. pacifier) – something which I have an unnatural hatred for.We are crossing our fingers that whatever it is that we are doing, we hope to somehow ease up his pain and discomfort. We certainly do not want to medicate him on a long term basis and at this stage, really hoping that this is a phase in which Squirt will soon outgrow.

 

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Squirt’s cot bed with a wedge underneath the sheet
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July 25, 2012

Smiley Squirt

Category: Baby Milestones

As I lay in bed the other night, my mind started to do a playback on the day’s event just as I was about to close my eyes. While the day had been somewhat rough, mainly with Squirt acting up and crying his guts out, my mind zoomed in at one particular moment of the day when I caught him smiling his lovely smiles as I was interacting with him.

That thought prompted me to update my FB status before I doze off to dreamland: 
I thought I saw you smile…and now I’m sure you do…and that you are actually smiling at me when I look at you! What joy!
As I punched in those words, I had his smiley expressions still-framed in my mind…
It was pure, and it was heart-warming. It was oozing love. 
And, it was a fluke that it sounded a little poetic for I did not intend for it to be. But, it did (and I was surprised that such an innocent status update received more than 10 “likes”)
Squirt has got me hook, line and sinker. I thought that was worth a post.
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July 24, 2012

Shame on you!

A few days ago, I had to tot Squirt around with me to get to the other side of town to run some errands. To get to my destination by 9.30 in the morning, I had to leave home at least an hour earlier and battled my way through a bunch of commuters taking the BTS train. I was wearing Squirt in a Mei-Tai.

It was a very crowded ride, and getting into the train itself at such peak hours can be quite a feat. As I got into the train, I consciously made my way towards the middle of the train where there might still be some room to stand so I don’t have to stand under anyone’s smelly armpit and breathing their garlic-smelling breath! 
I was not expecting anyone to give up their seats for me, but as I moved towards the area of occupied seats, a lady offered me her seat. Perhaps she felt sorry for me when she saw me carrying Squirt and a small bag pack, with nothing to hold on to. 
As she stood up, I noticed that she was pregnant! Not that I would have sat if anyone else would have offered as Squirt would rather have me stand, but I was pretty surprised that of all the able people in the train, it took a pregnant lady to offer me HER seat. I politely declined and really thought she being pregnant (bless her!) would need the seat more than I do. 
As soon as I declined though, her empty seat was promptly occupied by another well-dressed, very able lady in her late twenties, who sat her ass down and got busy reading her novel! How appalling!
I thought it would be kind to let the pregnant lady have her seat back. It seemed awfully wrong to steal the seat away from her. 
I should have said something, but I didn’t…. Perhaps, I just did not want to make a scene – and besides by the time I realized what happened, there were a few people standing in between me and the seat she took. 
People can be so shameless these day, and unfortunately incidences like this happen all the time. Is it so hard to be thoughtful of and kind to others?
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