
These are amazing skills, life skills that trip me up every once in a while. Sometimes, my life is just more colourful because of it. What have you got? 😉
Here’s to more life skills to enhance your week, peops!
Yes, hellooooooo! Now I can seeeeeee your gravatars when you click “Like” on my post because up until about a week or so ago, if you remember, all I had was the darn WTI Thumbs Up button. That WTI plugin only gave me numbers and is not connected to any WP users. Because of that, for a long time, I haven’t got a clue who the “likers”are. Very annoying.
But I made do with it because I’m self-hosted. That means, standard things such as the “like”, “re-blog”, “follow” buttons and a friendlier comment box which 200 million other wordpress.com users have – the most important things any blogger could ask for, are not native to wordpress.org. That means, I’ve got to settle for alternative plug-ins instead when I decided to go self-hosted 2 years ago. I just gave up trying to figure it out after spending unproductive time to figure it out; perhaps we hadn’t look at the right places.
Besides, I haven’t seen those buttons on any self-hosted sites I know, and if there are, I haven’t been paying attention. I decided that I was done mucking about with my site. I can’t be bothered to stay bothered.
Up until about 2 weeks ago. That was when I popped over at Faraday’s Candle and realised that hey! the sisters have managed to put in “Like” on their self-hosted site! They figured it out and I just have to know how! So, really, I’ll have to thank none other than Faraday and some support from WP for that! You have noooo idea how so very happy I am to be able to finally know that it can be done, because when I asked around about 2 years ago, I just could not find the answers!
Not only do I have the “Like” button, I also figured out how I can embed the native wordpress “Follow” button that should sit on my side-bar underneath my little about snippet. (It had worked for a couple of days until 2 days ago. Urrrgh!) Duh! You’d say; and never mind that I’m sounding like an idiotic moron, but for me, this is a major dumb-blonde-moment breakthrough! Only almost 2 years later!
Two tiny tweaks done over several days is a big deal, especially since I’m a tech idiot who also have very little patience to figure out the back-end and one who has given up trying to figure it all out.
So finally, finally, finally, I now have one of most offensive buttons in the blogging universe on a self-hosted site. And yes I’m saying it again that I am super, super happy that I now am finally able to see my Likers whom I haven’t been able to before! This is major and thank you, Faraday!
The only thing is, sometimes, it takes a while for the damn Like thing to load. And I mean a looooooooong while as it keeps on loading away, and soooooooo, I don’t always get to see who has clicked on the Like immediately. Very.Damn. Annoying. Not sure why that is, and I guess I’ll figure it out in time. I now also need to figure out how to embed the damn follow button again because the code generator now only works on a wordpress.com. Why! Oh why!
Still, it’s something. Annoying. But something. And I’m a little less stupid now. Here are the links in case you happen to also be in a rut on those offensive buttons if you are self-hosted:

What happens when you let your husband run the kitchen for a day? In Grubbs ‘n Critters’ household, we got ourselves some home-made dishes of cashew nut rice, some stir fried vegetables and a dish of beef stew!

Not too shabby at all, I’d say. Not too shabby! Silver Bullet spent a great deal of time in the kitchen prepping those, letting the beef shank stew for a long, long time over a small fire.I think he stewed the meat for over 6 hours. Enough to allow the meat to fall off the bones. Don’t ask me what got into him. It was probably one of those days when he felt the pressing need to challenge himself to try something new. He even made his own masala spices! Beat that. I probably would not have bothered.
With Silver Bullet though, he doesn’t do the typical modification like I always do with my food, and instead, he follows the recipe to a T lest he screws up. But he did substituted a couple of ingredients and add another type of chilli: The Bhut Jolokiah! This dish is Indian-inspired and laden with spices, and like all curries, tasted better when left overnight.
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