
When life gives you lemons, ask for kiwis. Make that a PURPLE kiwi. Change your mind 3.28 seconds later. Demand for the lemons back. But! Without the lemon inside. Then ball your eyes out because the lemons are not pink.
Insist on only pink lemon. No, wait. Don’t want lemons anymore. Not the normal, oval ones. Just lemons. But octagonal. And pink.
Wait. What are those lemons doing in the cats’ litterbox?!
I’m telling you it never ends.
Confused yet? I don’t blame you. Welcome to my world where nothing really makes sense.
Because, with our 2 little critters under 5 and our 3 not-so-normal cats, we have come to expect the occasional unexpected warped logic. Cutest things on earth, but they drive me up the wall!
Add that to a decade of our “temporary stay” in Bangkok earning our bread and butter as the clueless foreigners where Thai logic applies (I coin it Thaism), making it that much more perplexing. It does qualify us to give you some insights on Thailand, though!
A little bit about me
I’m a mutt. I hail from Singapore with a mixed Javanese-Japanese-Portuguese parentage who spends an unhealthy amount of time slaving away in a perceived-to-be glam-insanely-demanding ad industry. (which explains my penchant towards posting the occasional post-worthy ad).
I live for lyrics and quotes, appreciate witty sarcasm and would thoroughly enjoy the warped humour in Calvin & Hobbes. Although I couldn’t work a DSLR for my life, I greatly appreciate photography and the skills that go behind it.
My husband, Silver Bullet, is Dutch; making our young kids, Spud (born in 2008) and Squirt (born in 2010), a breed of authentic “muttified” mishmash. Their antics have contributed much to the colours in this blog and I worry if they would ever find their roots
Sometimes, I pretend that I have everything under control when my life is actually falling apart.
My therapy? Giving myself time-out in the kitchen to bake or whip-up yummilicious meals of Singaporean-Malaysian-Indonesian culinary influence, inspired by my Mom’s home-style fares. Grubs (my endearing term for food) are my poison, hence the term Grubbecipes for all my recipes found in this blog.
Have I mentioned the kids drive me up the wall yet?
My Blog
This is a personal lifestyle blog covering my colourful and topsy-turvy world of our life in Thailand and the odd characters I meet or work with, parenting, my passion for cooking, reading and everything else in between that suit my fancy. Rants and the occasional shoe-whoring included.
This is my life in an orgnanised chaos of trying to be a super-wonder working Mom, juggling life. It will not be girlie and oozing cuteness. The colour Pink is OUT and so are politics. Neither will it be always upbeat where everything is just great and picture perfect.
Instead, I’ll give you the low-down of things and tell you like it is, with minimal sugar coating. With parenting, I’ll share anecdotal accounts of my parenting challenges with my little critters, Spud and Squirt. Things that people don’t usually talk about so openly; sometimes, with a little exaggeration. And I’ll tell you when I do – just to make the point so you can roll your eyeballs like I sometimes do.
Like the lemon excerpt above.
I believe there is a trove of information to be discovered on my site from my archives . I hope you find them useful to help you navigate this confusing, frustrating yet joyful experience of parenting and living life outside a comfort zone as a sleep-deprived working mother trying to do it all.
I hope my stories will give you some perspectives on stuff for when things get just too confusing. And I hope you leave my page with at least a smile on your face.
Or just join in the ride. You may be surprised!
From us with much love,



Come connect with me! Leave you comments below or drop me a personal note in my Contact Page.
glad to meet you and to read posts from your world. I am Danish with Swedish and German roots way back in the family tree.
What a mix! Can you speak Swedish and German too? 🙂
I can’t find the Like button, but here’s an unofficial Like.
Thanks Ellen! Like button only on my posts – even that is not the standard WP like as I’m on .org. Appreciate it though! Thank YOU and nice meeting you! 😀
Sawasdee Kap – Laaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!
Thanks for your “follow” indicator.
I’m not that far from you and your beautiful family as it happens – tell your husband to check out the Pickled Liver bar on Soi 7 (off Sukhumvit) – English pub, very very nice – no bar girlies hanging around – just a good solid English bar and run by an English chap called Nick.
Since your husband is Dutch he’s bound to like a beer and sport – seriously, tell him to try it out – it really isn’t your “usual” BKK bar.
http://thepickledliver.com/
Cheers ~ ‘ter
ps – I rarely if ever check that wp email address I use shown above unless I am advised to check it via my wp about page
I surely will let him know! Thanks for dropping by and letting me know abt this!
Well Hello Ann and GANG! LOL.
Wanted to Thank You for coming by my blog, and most likely due to Mr. Harsh Reality?? He is an awesome recovery supporter of mine XO. So yes, I live life in recovery almost 9 years, but I do have another wonderful WP blog, as I am a Book Blogger & Book Promoter for myself and other fine new authors.
So come by sometime and learn about some great new reads here: http://anauthorandwriterinprogress.wordpress.com
I’m a Kitty Lover as well, and yours are beautiful. And by the photo’s, looks like you have a beautiful family as well! I’m a new follow fan!
*Catherine* 🙂 🙂
Hi Catherine! Yes, I believe I saw a tweet from Harsh Reality and I had a pop over. 😀 You are doing great!
Thanks for the kind words and leaving your comments. Really appreciate it! I’ll definitely be going over to your blog often! 🙂
Hi, Ann! I nominated you for the Versatile Blogger Award! I think of it as special edition because it honors mommy bloggers in celebration of Mother’s Day. 🙂
Happy Mother’s Day!
http://silverliningmama.com/2015/05/08/nominate-your-favorite-mommy-blogger/
Hello Jan! Wow! What an honour to be part of this special edition. Thank you for thinking of me. You made my day! 😀 Will definitely look into this.
So lovely to find you and your blog! I look forward to reading more about your family adventures, and of course your recipes! Best, Karen
Thank you Karen!Nice to meet you, too! 😀
For you Ann!
https://butismileanyway.wordpress.com/2015/05/29/sisters-are-doing-it-for-themselves-and-for-me/
🙂
Oooohhh!!! Thank you, Ritu!!! 😀
Hi Ann,
thank you so much for visiting my blog and your lovely messages. I adore you and your “mutt” family, cats included. Looking forward to exploring your blog, I love your style and humor! Hugs and smooches 🙂
Awww…thank you for the kind words, Jas!And lovely of you to stop by. Welcome to my world. 😀
Found your blog from The Leisure Link. Lovely blog! Greetings from a Javanese lady living in Singapore =)
Hello Fiftarina! Thanks for leaving your footprint. Nice to meet you and hope you are enjoying Singapore. Salam sejahtera to you! 🙂
what a joy it is to get to know you and your lovely family. I look forward to many more wonderful visits to your blog. Hugs!
and thank YOU for stopping by and such kind words. I hope for many more wonderful visits too! 😀
So glad I popped your blog and your ‘about me’. You do write in a very engaging manner! Good to tell it as it is; that’s life, isn’t it. Life is all glitter and gold, it’s quite a mix match.
All the best on your parenting journey, I’m sure your posts will resonate with others on the road. Keep keeping it real. 🙂 #BlogComment (WeekendBlogHop)
Thank you , Novice Mum! It’s words like yours that continue to keep me motivated to keep going. Life is a mixed match indeed. Thank you for the kind words and taking the time to drop a comment. HIghly appreciated! Have a wonderful day!:)
Hey there! This is my first visit to your blog! We are a group of volunteers and starting
a new initiative in a community in the same niche.
Your blog provided us valuable information to work on. You have done a outstanding job!
Thanks Sheena!
Nice blog.
Glad to have come across.
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Nice to meet you Arcane! Thank you for stopping by! 🙂 Wishing you a wonderful day!
Hi Ann,
I’ve nominated you for The Sunshine Blogger Award Challenge, hope you don’t mind. I’m hoping each question stimulates a post all on its own.
Feel free to respond if you wish, but if you prefer not, no problem!
Link here: http://safarfiertze.com/2015/09/08/a-ray-of-sunshine/
Awesome!! I love award nominations and of course I don’t mind it at all! I graciously accept it – only it will take a bit longer before I’ll write about it. But yes, I will definitely get to it. Thank you so much, Safar for the kind nomination. I’m honoured!!!
wow, that’s an awesome family…love the cats..and you are pretty precious yourself 🙂 Feels good to have landed here!
Looks like i’m your latest follower…
Thank you for the kind words and the follow, Savio! Always happy to have a new follower! 😀
We share an affinity for weirdness, coffee and cats I see! You have a beautiful family and I love the way you write 🙂 Great meeting you 🙂
Hello Janey! Thank you for dropping by and such kind words – comments like that make my day! 😀 Weirdness, coffee, cats…kindred spirits I’d say! Nice to see you here. 🙂
Looking good!!
which part? 😉
Hi
Thank you so much for finding my blog and liking a post and following me 🙂
😀 And thank you for stopping by! It really is good to be crazy, sometimes! 😀
😀 And thank you for stopping by! It really is good to be crazy, sometimes! 😀
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Ann I only saw your question now Ann ! I speak Swedish and read and understand some German. We “learned German” for five years at school. Unfortunately I didn’t listen or wanted to learn German having grown up after the shadows of the WWII
Oh my, Maria! Thatwas from ages ago! LOL. Thanks for responding. I can understand why you wouldn’t want to learn/listen to German after those horrible years. German’s a pretty difficult language too!
HI
Just to let you know I have given you a shout out here
https://itsgoodtobecrazysometimes.wordpress.com/2016/03/01/lifestyle-links-part-12/
Thanks for coming by my blog! Enjoy your weekend! 🙂
Most welcome, Joey! Have a wonderful weekend too. 🙂
Hi
I have nominated you for an award, sorry if I missed you are award free, if you do want to take part you can find all the details here
https://itsgoodtobecrazysometimes.wordpress.com/2016/03/18/the-leibster-award-3/
Not at all award free! Awards are very welcome here. 😀 Thank you, Trina! 😀 x.
Oooh I am sooo glad I decided to check out your website right away !! I was a lil drowsy and had some work pending, but your about me totally jolted out of my sleepiness and here I am grinning ear to ear 😀 I just love how you twisted that lemon saying into something so much funny and relatable 😀 And the names of your kids !! OMG ! Aren’ they the cutest <3 <3 Both the names and your kids <3
And am so jealous your therapy is cooking 😛 You won't believe how much I whine to cook just for me and my hubby even when half of the times he only does it 😛
I also adore Calvin n Hobbes , am pathetic with a DSLR though I love to pose 😛 but I would beg to differ about the color pink 😀 I loveee Pink and yes I am a girlie girl types !!! But still glad you could relate with me and paid my blog a visit 🙂 Would love to connect with you more in the world of blogs and boy haven I rambled on 😛 Hope you have a lovely week ahead. Cheers and Warmest wishes, Minaxi <3
Thank you for dropping by Minaxi! You sound very bubbly and I like it! Glad I managed to help you get out of your drowsiness with my about. LOL. It’s a great compliment! 😀 Calvin and Hobbes is great and I absolutely have no issues with people liking pink. I just don’t like it myself but my daughter has been into pink for a long time now and I just sigh my big sigh…I realise I can’t run away from it. LOL. Really nice to meet you and I’ll be popping over to yours too. Here’s to a great week to you too! x. 😀
Love your antics and humor! Look forward to reading more. 🙂
Hahaha! Thank you, Mia! I’m so very glad you enjoy them. Come back soon! 🙂
What a wonderful site and Intro page. Loved this little peek at your life and family and I look forward to getting to know you through this wonderful world of blogging 🙂
Thank you, Diya! And so sorry for the delayed approval as I have been away. I’ll be popping by your blog soon. 😀 Appreciate you dropping by and leaving a comment. Have a wonderful day!
Glad to be one of many visitors on this awesome web site : D.
Just wanted to let you know I appreciate your blog and am inspired by you. Thanks for your recent participation on my blog link. Shared your blog so others can be as much as I am.:)
https://theviewfrommywindowlaura.com/2016/08/04/im-thankful-for/
Oh, Laura! Such kindness…thank you for your kind words and for dropping by my little island in the sea of blogs! I am thankful indeed! 🙂 Have a lovely day!
You have a lovely blog, quirky and fun! So good to read. Gina
Thank you, Singledust
Ann,
Thank you so much for visiting my blog and the sweet words because it gave me a chance to find your AMAZING blog!
And thank you so very much for stopping by here too, Sandhya! Such kind words. 🙂 It’s really nice to meet you over in the blogosphere!